Diane-- many CGs find CARE helps in 2 main ways--practical suggestions from others' experience, and emotional support for the daily grind. I encourage you to give it a try. I am going to post the info "how to do it" in a few minutes so check the main list,please. Hope to see you on CARE soon. >How do I get on the care list and how will it help me help my Mum > > >D Camilla Flintermann .. [log in to unmask] CG for Peter, 79/8 ( co-owner of CARE list) **__**__**__**__**__**__**__**__**__**__** * * * "IF THE ONLY TOOL YOU HAVE IS A HAMMER,* * EVERYTHING LOOKS LIKE A NAIL" * * ---Abraham Maslow * **__**__**__**__**__**__**__**__**__**__**