John one thing you said about your grandmother rang a bell. My motherr asked her (late) grandmother, how it felt to be 84, and she said "until I look in a mirror, I still think I am 16!" She died peacefully in her sleep later that year, may she rest in peace. The lesson I have learned from her, and your grandmother: we should destroy all the mirrors!!!! Why not have eternal youth?!! [log in to unmask]