Dear Kees and Faye: My best wishes on your upcoming wedding, here are some helpful marriage hints (from "All You Ever Need To Know You Learned in Kindergarten"): Share everything Play Fair Don't hit Put things back where they belong Clean up your own mess Say you are sorry Wash your hands before meals Flush When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together. Take a nap every afternoon. Good Luck - Mazel Tov Stephan 53/7