In a message dated 98-03-16 12:34:45 EST, you write: > How does everyone else cope with this? Hi, Tami -- I don't think anyone has the "perfect" answer to your excellent question, but I think a lot of us have found wonderful help, understanding and support on the CareGivers List. If you aren't on it, by all means join -- and feel free to express your worries there. We all know exactly how you feel and will be happy to talk with you on or off the list. Please feel free to e-mail me any time, and please do join the CARE list. Best wishes, Delda White CG Bob 66/1 ([log in to unmask])