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Dear Lori-- there is surely such a "link" for many persons--and probably
for most of us, one way or another. Think about it....how would you feel if
gradually you were unable to do the simple things you always had done, and
had to depend on others for help? Part of it may be a need to control
SOMETHING--but part also may be a redirection of the rage  and frustration
one feels in that situation. Feelings often are channelled indirectly,
rather than expressed about the thing that provokes them....I can't say
more, knowing nothing about your mother and family, but you may very well
have hit upon a cause for what seems to be a personality change, and that
may help you deal with her with more empathy  and understanding. Maybe she
needs to talk about how she feels?



>My mother has PD and has recently  become a very controling person.
>Is there a link between losing control of your body and wanting to
>gain it back through the control of others?
>
>Lori


  Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 79/8
  Oxford, OH
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