At 03:52 AM 4/29/98 , John I Quist <[log in to unmask]> wrote: >On Sun, 26 Apr 1998, Janet313 wrote: > >> [hanging on to] anger >> is like burning down the house >> to catch the mouse >> >> [paraphrased] lao tse > >This sounds like anger is a bad thing? -snip- >Anger doesn't have to mean yelling and striking people! It can also be >that intense feeling of "what they are doing to me is wrong! I will not >let them do it to me!". >For me, it is the driving force that gives me energy to stand up and >fight when others ignore me and my value (as well as the value of others). > >Am I making sense? Did you mean it differently? > >Take care! >/John. Janet had to add "[hanging on to]" in her paraphrase to make just the point you make. Anger can clearly be a good thing when it is funnelled into the right action. Hanging onto anger is that which is destructive. Art P.S. Acrostic above not intentional. However, acrostic in signature is. ________________________________________________________________ Arthur Hirsch {} [log in to unmask] {} Lewisville, TX {} 972-434-2377 (nickname on instant mail, ICQ, and chat programs is cutterson) ________________________________________________________________ Always Remember This: Happiness Is Right, So Choose Happiness ________________________________________________________________