if god exists , he is certainly a sadist > > then why should I be thanking Him for blessings, and praying to Him for > help? > > > > Sue, daughter of Rocky 76/18 > > May I suggest the excellent book, WHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE. I > don't know the author, but he has lost a young son and works his way > through the questions you are asking. > > Jeanette 47/6mos.