In a message dated 98-05-14 20:39:46 EDT, you write: >Maybe we need one in a variety of >faiths. Please please please -- no chaplains. I work with clergypeople all the time. Some are stupendous, some are putrid, and most are in between. I have been tremendously impressed in my 13 months on this list by the good-sense, compassionate suggestions from people like Camilla. She has done counseling and therefore has a lot of experience. Others on the list have dealt with nursing homes, difficult relatives, etc., etc., and I have found their sharing of experience to be rich indeed. Just because someone is a clergyman does not mean he/she has any experience with what PWPs and CGs go through. Let's please stick with those who do. Delda White CG Bob 66/1.5