This is a multi-part message in MIME format. ------=_NextPart_000_000E_01BD82FA.24C27300 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable As suggested when I joined, I am introducing myself. I am only daughter = of 78 y/o father with severe PD and 71 /o mother with early but rapidly = progressing Alzheimer's. I am primary caregiver for them but do have = fulltime sitters to help (thank goodness). I have 2 brothers who live = out of state and can't/won't help much. I am an ER nurse and am dealing = well with the special health needs...feeding tube, colostomy, limited = mobility. But I am having a very hard time dealing with my father's = loss of independence, privacy, and dignity despite all that I do to = maximize each. He is to a point where he wants to die especially now = that he is having to watch mom decline so rapidly. I am mostly looking = to this group for advice, support and companionship with others who = understand this situation.=20 ------=_NextPart_000_000E_01BD82FA.24C27300 Content-Type: text/html; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable <!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD W3 HTML//EN"> <HTML> <HEAD> <META content=3Dtext/html;charset=3Diso-8859-1 = http-equiv=3DContent-Type> <META content=3D'"MSHTML 4.71.1712.3"' name=3DGENERATOR> </HEAD> <BODY bgColor=3D#ffffff> <DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>As suggested when I joined, I am = introducing=20 myself. I am only daughter of 78 y/o father with severe PD and 71 = /o=20 mother with early but rapidly progressing Alzheimer's. I am = primary=20 caregiver for them but do have fulltime sitters to help (thank = goodness). =20 I have 2 brothers who live out of state and can't/won't help much. = I am an=20 ER nurse and am dealing well with the special health needs...feeding = tube,=20 colostomy, limited mobility. But I am having a very hard time = dealing with=20 my father's loss of independence, privacy, and dignity despite all that = I do to=20 maximize each. He is to a point where he wants to die especially = now that=20 he is having to watch mom decline so rapidly. I am mostly looking = to this=20 group for advice, support and companionship with others who understand = this=20 situation. </FONT></DIV></BODY></HTML> ------=_NextPart_000_000E_01BD82FA.24C27300--