Wendy,
Welcome to the list! As someone who teaches children with multiple
disabilities, and as the daughter of Jerry, who has PD, I think you're right
in wanting your mom to be as independent as possible for as long as possible.
I've found it helps somewhat to concentrate more on what my Dad CAN do, not on
what he's lost (I do this with my students too). In that way, you're also
helping your Mom to remain as independent as possible. If I see that Dad's
having a hard time with something, I'll usually ask if he wants me to help
him, rather than just jumping right in. I think this also helps with
independence. Are there any PD support groups near where you and your Mom
live? Dad belongs to one and Mom goes with him, as they have support meetings
at the same time for both the PWP and caregiver. There is also a caregiver
support list, although the address escapes me at the present. Others on this
list can give it to you. I look forward to reading your posts! Trish
