Gina, You MUST listen to the c&w song by Pam Tillis, "The Queen of De Nial". It puts some humor in a country music way to a lady's refusal to see the truth. Could help you, anyway, it is funny. It is not on the current hits chart but in the last year or so. Jeanette Fuhr 47/7mos. Gina said in post to Ken:---------- > Thanks for the nice chats. I have really needed them this week. So far into > denial, it is horrible. > Gina