Barb: Your words are very powerful. Thank you. I'm learning from all of you. I also have 2 HUGE cats and 2 small dogs. They comfort me very much. Gina (Abby, Bandit, Fred and Ethyl, these last 2 are the cats. Fred is a 25 lb. red tabby and Ethyl is a 20 lb. solid black) 47/6 months