Camilla, You are so right that some people have no interest in some things and, in my case, outright fear of others. I tend to archive posts about wheelchairs and operations as I am scared of my future. These are things in my nightmares and I am not ready to face them, yet. Please note, I said "yet". I know that one day I may be forced to face the wheelchair and / or brain surgery, but not today. don't forget how to laugh (and do it often) Marling McReynolds [log in to unmask] http://members.tripod.com/~marling