Dear George, You may have started it off, but Rosemary said she deleted ones about body odor & that was one of the ones I had wrote about. It made me mad. So I wrote back to her. Then she apologized to me & I excepted it. End of story. About toughening my skin. Going through 2 heart attacks & PD with Jim. I've toughened up a little more but still can't step on other peoples toes, just because they stepped on mine. Guess its the southern hospitality still in me. I just don't like to add fuel to the flame. I don't like to argue, or fuss. Hope Jim doesn't see this, he would disagree., but you can say things to a spouse, that you wouldn't say to others. We all have a right to our own opinions, even it some disagree. Betty cg Jim 65/3 George J. Lussier wrote: > Dear Betty, > I may be the person who set this delete sub plot off and running this time. We do this every 3-4 months. In order to survive as a list member or as a caregiver/pwp you need to toughen up your skin so I offer you no apology but instead the encouragement to give back as good as you got. If someone knowingly steps on your toes, step on theirs just as hard. None of that forgiveness crap. > Now who the heck is Rosemary and what did she have to say? > > My best > george > Amazing grace! How sweet the sound > that saved a wretch like me! > I once was lost, but now am found; > was blind, but now I see. > > [log in to unmask]