This is a multi-part message in MIME format. ------=_NextPart_000_005E_01BDAC4C.F5A70E60 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable A couple of days ago someone, a man, related to the Listserv an incident = that had happened in a boy's changing room of a gym. He accidentally = hit a young boy and I remember the ending as "I couldn't tell you who = sobbed more." I was deeply moved by this story. I think it hit me quite hard and I = pushed delete before I had given myself the chance to identify the = feelings, and before I had the chance to properly respond. It was a = shared experience which deserved a response. I let it go too soon, and = as a result I have no name to direct my response to.=20 So, to the man who showed such courage and sensitivity in the relating = of his story, thank you. I can't get the incident out of my mind. I = read this today and I thought it appropriate: "We are the subjects of our own narrative, witnesses to and participants = in our own experience, and, in no way coincidentally, in the experiences = of those with whom we have come in contact........" (she goes on to = speak about the process of writing specifically) And to read imaginative = literature by and about us is to choose to examine centers of the self, = and to have the opportunity to compare those centers...." Toni Morrison Thank you for giving me the opportunity to examine and compare my own = center with your experience. ------=_NextPart_000_005E_01BDAC4C.F5A70E60 Content-Type: text/html; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable <!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD W3 HTML//EN"> <HTML> <HEAD> <META content=3Dtext/html;charset=3Diso-8859-1 = http-equiv=3DContent-Type> <META content=3D'"MSHTML 4.72.2106.6"' name=3DGENERATOR> </HEAD> <BODY bgColor=3D#ffffff> <DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>A couple of days ago someone, a man, = related to=20 the Listserv an incident that had happened in a boy's changing room of a = gym. He accidentally hit a young boy and I remember the ending as = "I=20 couldn't tell you who sobbed more."</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>I was deeply moved by this = story. I think=20 it hit me quite hard and I pushed delete before I had given myself the = chance to=20 identify the feelings, and before I had the chance to properly = respond. It=20 was a shared experience which deserved a response. I let it go too = soon,=20 and as a result I have no name to direct my response to. </FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>So, to the man who showed such = courage and=20 sensitivity in the relating of his story, thank you. I can't get = the=20 incident out of my mind. I read this today and I thought it=20 appropriate:</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>"We are the subjects of our own narrative, = witnesses to=20 and participants in our own experience, and, in no way coincidentally, = in the=20 experiences of those with whom we have come in contact........" = (she goes=20 on to speak about the process of writing specifically) And to read = imaginative=20 literature by and about us is to choose to examine centers of the self, = and to=20 have the opportunity to compare those centers...." Toni=20 Morrison</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>Thank you for giving me the opportunity to examine = and compare=20 my own center with your experience.</FONT></DIV></BODY></HTML> ------=_NextPart_000_005E_01BDAC4C.F5A70E60--