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Ken... I've never doubted for a moment. the love you've felt for your dad is still a living entity as well as a living legacy here on the List, as is your dad's presence amongst us. In fact, during the time I've known you online, from what you've said about your dad, I suspect the wonderful sense of whimsy, the warmth, and the wisdom that I treasure in his son, came from that loving father. The leaf didn't fall far from the tree, dear friend. Barb Mallut [log in to unmask] ---------- From: Parkinson's Information Exchange on behalf of KEn Becker Sent: Saturday, July 11, 1998 10:03 PM To: Multiple recipients of list PARKINSN Subject: Re: oh no! or, oh yes! Tim, I lost my dad recently to Parkinson's. The last time I saw him smile, mask and all, was when I came to visit and brought him a lemon tart, his favorite dessert. He knew I got it just for him, and it made me feel so good knowing he enjoyed it. His sense of humor was intact right to the end. It wasn't easy to communicate with him, but we usually knew what he was thinking, or what he would say if he could talk. He let us know how he felt in many ways. The main reason I remain on the Parkinson's list, is to continue communicating FOR him, the way he would if he were here. He left a rich legacy of love, and caring. He planned for all of his family and friends to have whatever he could give us, from his support of anything we wanted to do, to his careful attention to financial security for my mother. Someone (was it you?) recently said "we ALL have a terminal disease." That is true. But we should NOT have to suffer. Especially if there is any way to prevent that suffering, or minimize it. Thank you for offering some solutions for what are probably the worst symptoms of Parkinsons, those that affect self esteem, and coping mechanisms. Most people can cope with major physical disabilities, if they can maintain a positive mental attitude. To quote a song lyric: "I can get by with a little help from my friends", should be our motto on the list. You are an example of the kind of friend we are lucky to have with us. Thanks for being here. [log in to unmask]