List Members: I can well understand Hilary's post in response to Wendy's: Hilary was extremely agitated with Wendy's proposal and theory...and maybe justifiably so. What Wendy perceives as "reality" is just that...her personal perception. Hilary makes some good points, but they would have been more effective had she tendered her comments with a little sympathy. Hilary is obviously very distraught and desperate. Understanding quantum physics, Einstein's theory, etc., is one thing; but understanding human nature is quite another thing. The former takes lots of book-learning; the second takes patience, love, and understanding and is the greatest goal anyone could possibly strive for. The latter is what is needed in this here. This is suppose to be a support group, not a flaming group. Anger and frustration never solve anything. I am not at all against prayer. Prayer is, for me, the answer to all problems, but they are not always answered the way we want them to be. Those who wish to join Wendy can contact her personally. No problem in that, is there? Linda [log in to unmask]