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Hi Joe, Hi Barb, Dear Joe: I have just a couple of thoughts that might or might not shed some light on your situation. SNIP My point here is, that after I stopped looking for a mate, and focusing on the quality of my own life, someone became attracted to me. I hope you would like some suggestions, because here is what I would do: I'd sign up for classes in areas that would excite me (in my case I'd take creative writing, stained glass making, etc. ) SNIP Meeting people in classes, courses, or through friends gives everyone lots of space, as the focus is on the activity not the people. I think your request to air this topic was entirely appropriate. I wish you all the best, Barb R. Joe, I took dance classes (ballroom & Latin) as therapy for my awkwardness (falling down) and therapy for my state of mind. It was there I met my wife in 1991. We married in 1994 and all I can say is it certainly worked for me.......... I also wish you all the best............Murray [log in to unmask]