Hi BPat: I think it should be a rule that's spelled out when joining though I must= say=0Athat a long time ago when we were talking about sending pictures I= sent a=0Apicture and got such an outpouring of anger that I almost quit = the list. I=0Awould never send anything again after that. I can't really= imagine anybody=0Awould make that mistake twice. If they do, they're am= azingly impervious for a=0Asensitive PWPer. =D8f course, I had no idea = it would mess things up for=0Aanybody -- people should be warned when the= y join. Surely the outspokenness=0Aof many on this list would take care = of the problem -- but first you have to=0Aknow it is a problem!! Liz=0A