Hello Jeremy: I believe it is a terrible shame to judge others by a word, a name, a look, a device. But that is what society has done over the years. People pick the word that sets them apart, they become unique. I was taught in recent years that I am not unique, I am not better than anyone. Maybe my cirmcumstances are different but not the people. Working with chemically addicated, homeless, gay, lesbion, straight, the list goes on. But as I worked with an agency to help, it becomes sad that there is a list. We can't help the less fortunate in our country, we can't even help research to look for a cure or more help with PD, or Altzheimemrs, whatever it is. Lord, make me the instrument of your peace where there is hatred--let me sow love Where there is injury -- pardon Where there is doubt--faith Where there is despair--hope Where there is darkness -- Light and Where there is sadness -- joy O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek To be consoled -- as to console To be understood -- as to understand To be loved -- as to love for It is in giving -- that we receive It is in pardoning --tht we are pardoned It is in dying -- that we are born to eternal life. I can't say I believe in relgion I don't really know, but I do know that this prayer states some things I do believe in. What happened to taking care of our neighbor? When I was still driving I was giving rides to women (not good for women to men and men to women) to meetings, to drs, to store what ever. Sure I know I got one now and then that used me, but I met some women who were chemically dependent but where great. There but for the grace of god go I. I have to treat my PD like this. I keep busy with other things. I get on the phone and talk to other addicts, other PD, other homebound people that is what I need to do. And you know I still use the word gay for happy, etc. We all have choices. TTFN Gina Gotta Let The Dogs Out