Dear Bruce-- you really spoke to an important point about the volume of list traffic. I know this concerns our "fearless leader", Barb Patterson ALL THE TIME and she would MUCH appreciate the sort of restraint you propose. Remember, friends that EVERYTHING you post to the list goes to the archives--which were so full the other day as to be unusable! The "thank you Joe", posts, the "me too"s, the multiple responses when there's a technical problem with the list, EVERYTHING! I'm sure others feel as I do at times that not to reply may be "rude"--but is it really necessary for 1600+ people around the world to know that I thanked Ms.X? At times, it has been suggested that the list be divided, with part just for serious PD matters, and part for fun and socializing....this has never been what was wanted by most members. But individual restraint, as Bruce suggests, would help SO MUCH--ans we who are already here can set an example for newbies--- if we remember NOT to use "reply to the list" for messages that are intended for one person, not to be the umpteenth person to complain about volume of messages, (which increases the volume!) not to send attachments, or complain about them if others have already done so---to pay attention to the instructions Barb send out, and save for future use, so as not to clog the list with commands which can only work if sent to the listserv, not copying the entire post we are answering,---I'm sure Barb has other suggestions also! And Bruce, in my Eudora Pro email program I can just HIGHLIGHT, COPY, and then PASTE an address into a new message, which takes about as long as hitting "reply", and goes only to one person--surely other mail programs can offer this easy option. Bruce wrote in part: >I recently a posted a general request for assistance. I have received the >expected and heartening response from List members, whom should now be >thanked. It is so much easier to hit Reply & send it off to the entire >civilized world than it is to hunt for the person's address & type it in, >that that's what most of us do. Ad nauseum even, maybe. But more >importantly, it all takes up space on the List and decreases the number of >important messages that now can be sent sometimes. >SNIPPED > Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter, 80/9 <[log in to unmask]> > > http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm My Home Page > > > * ***** ***** ***** ***** ***** * > * * > * Knowing when to insist, and when to let be,* > * is,perhaps, a lifetime learning experience * > * --Mary McCurry * > * * > * ***** ***** ***** ***** ***** * >