hi all and especially cyber-dad-don i've received several messages commending me for my response to don's 'upset' message giving me kudos for 'helping' don if i 'help' don by writing to or for him i am doubly blessed he has such warmth and generosity and love and humour in him that reading his messages upset or non-upset inspire me i admire don and vivian [and their 52 year love affair] very much i want to be just like them when i grow up sis [log in to unmask]