This discussion needs to engulf which rest room to use. I know I would not want to go in the men's! And I'm sure my husband would not want to go in the womens. But there are certain advantages to the Women's. The individual stall in the Women's pose more privacy than the open urinals in the Men's room. Then again it should be considered the privacy of the person that needs to go not the person that is helping. What do you think? jjjane jjjane http://www.parkinsonalliance.net/medical/palross/palross.htm