JANET - Thanks for posting "The Rules for Being Human". While it is good for all of us, I sent it to my son who just graduated from the University of Georgia and is trying to find his way in an overwhelming world. Sorting out his choice for a wife and finding commitment hard, finding the right job, and trying to be his own best man. He takes any small failure SO personally and feels he must be perfect.. Sorry, hit the wrong key and think maybe this was already sent.. I just wanted to thank you for so many helpfull posts. helenjc