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PATTI WROTE:
> O.K., I was going to let this one pass, but having seen it =
re-posted, I
>am compelled to respond. I enjoy a good laugh as much as the next =
person,
>but I am distressed by the cavalier attitude displayed in passing on =
this
>"humor." First Ethel was described as "one sandwich short of a =
picnic." I
>assume this means that she is incompetent. Given that, I find the =
sexual
>nature of the joke tasteless at best.
>
> To the sender of this "joke" and to those who think it's funny: =
Are you
>aware that assault, including sexual assault is a serious problem for =
those
>who are institutionalized? Are you aware that this type of behavior =
toward
>someone who is legally incapable of consent (incompetent, mentally ill,
>minors) is criminal? Would you laugh if Ethel were your
>mother/wife/sister/daughter/father/husband/brother/son?
>
> Would you laugh if this joke were about wife-beating, sex with =
children,
>gay-bashing, or a sexual assault on a PWP? Have a little sensitivity =
here,
>and consider what you are condoning. What we are talking about here is
>victimization.
>
>Patti
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After a hard, 10 hour day at work and long evening helping Mother with =
dinner and bedtime chores, I've just finished reading all my 90+ email =
messages for the day. We sure are an out-spoken bunch today. Being =
pretty much of a "newby" on the List, I've been keeping my more =
passionate beliefs to myself up until now. Patti's letter, however, has =
sparked my "coming out". =20
I am one that found the "Ethel" joke to be very funny. That does not =
mean I am not "aware" of the obvious or "insensitive" to anyone that may =
be "one sandwich short of a picnic". Nobody has a bigger heart or will =
come to the aid of anyone in need faster that I have, do or will. I've =
always been among the ones with nerve enough to speak up for the =
underdog when others all around me are "following the crowd". I have =
more than a "little sensitivity" for what's real. However, "Ethel" is =
NOT someone's mother/wife/sister/daughter/father/husband/brother/son. =
"She" is a fictional character in a joke, for God's sake. What we are =
talking about here, is an adult joke, NOT "victimization". =20
I would not laugh at an adult joke if it were told around my =
grandchildren (even if I did think it was funny). Children are still =
learning and forming their beliefs and sense of right. As one of their =
adult role models, my body language would leave no doubt that speaking =
of others or circumstances in such a manner is not the right thing to =
do. However, as well developed adults, they will be able to express =
their sense of humor and still maintain their values.
Those of us on the List are neither children nor ignorant adults who are =
likely to believe that "telling or laughing at an adult joke" is the =
same as "condoning the behavior". =20
Lighten up! Life is too serious and too short already without self =
righteousness thrown in. The pendulum of "Politically Correct" has =
swung far enough, it's time to push it back a ways.
(Well, Patti, we're now "lecture for lecture" and it's your turn at bat =
if you wish a turn.)
Sharon Starr (Florence, AZ) Daughter and CG / Rae=3D74 now / 50 age dx =
/ 45 age onset
P.S. And yes, I have found some "wife-beating" jokes to be quite =
humorous, and I have been the victim of abuse. However, when I became =
able to laugh about it, I could see the underlying problem clearly for =
the first time. Laughter was the catalyst to my "healing". (Haven't =
been beaten since, either.) :<)
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<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 face=3D"Times New Roman" size=3D2>PATTI =
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<DIV>> O.K., I was going to let this one pass, but =
having=20
seen it re-posted, I<BR>>am compelled to respond. I enjoy a =
good laugh=20
as much as the next person,<BR>>but I am distressed by the cavalier =
attitude=20
displayed in passing on this<BR>>"humor." First Ethel =
was=20
described as "one sandwich short of a picnic." I<BR>>assume =
this=20
means that she is incompetent. Given that, I find the =
sexual<BR>>nature=20
of the joke tasteless at best.<BR>><BR>> To the =
sender=20
of this "joke" and to those who think it's funny: Are=20
you<BR>>aware that assault, including sexual assault is a serious =
problem for=20
those<BR>>who are institutionalized? Are you aware that this =
type of=20
behavior toward<BR>>someone who is legally incapable of consent =
(incompetent,=20
mentally ill,<BR>>minors) is criminal? Would you laugh if Ethel =
were=20
your<BR>>mother/wife/sister/daughter/father/husband/brother/son?<BR>&g=
t;<BR>> =20
Would you laugh if this joke were about wife-beating, sex with=20
children,<BR>>gay-bashing, or a sexual assault on a PWP? Have a =
little=20
sensitivity here,<BR>>and consider what you are condoning. What =
we are=20
talking about here =
is<BR>>victimization.<BR>><BR>>Patti<BR></DIV></DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 face=3D"Times New Roman"><FONT=20
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<DIV><FONT face=3D"Times New Roman"></FONT>
<DIV>After a hard, 10 hour day at work and long evening helping Mother =
with=20
dinner and bedtime chores, I've just finished reading all my 90+ email =
messages=20
for the day. We sure are an out-spoken bunch today. =
Being=20
pretty much of a "newby" on the List, I've been keeping my =
more=20
passionate beliefs to myself up until now. Patti's letter, =
however, has=20
sparked my "coming out". </DIV></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial>I am one that found the "Ethel" joke =
to be very=20
funny. That does not mean I am not "aware" of the =
obvious or=20
"insensitive" to anyone that may be "one sandwich short =
of a=20
picnic". Nobody has a bigger heart or will come to the aid of =
anyone=20
in need faster that I have, do or will. I've always been among the =
ones=20
with nerve enough to speak up for the underdog when others all around me =
are=20
"following the crowd". I have more than a "little=20
sensitivity" <U>for what's real</U>. However, =
"Ethel" is=20
NOT someone's =
mother/wife/sister/daughter/father/husband/brother/son. =20
"She" is a fictional character in a joke, for God's =
sake. What=20
we are talking about here, is an adult joke, NOT=20
"victimization". </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial>I would not laugh at an adult joke if it were =
told around=20
my grandchildren (even if I did think it was funny). Children are still =
learning=20
and forming their beliefs and sense of right. As one of their =
adult role=20
models, my body language would leave no doubt that speaking of others or =
circumstances in such a manner is not the right thing to do. =
However, as=20
well developed adults, they will be able to express their sense of humor =
and=20
still maintain their values.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial></FONT><FONT face=3DArial>Those of us on the =
List are=20
neither children nor ignorant adults who are likely to believe that=20
"telling or laughing at an adult joke" is the same as =20
"condoning the behavior". </FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial>Lighten up! Life is too serious and too =
short=20
already without self righteousness thrown in. The pendulum of=20
"Politically Correct" has swung far enough, it's time to push =
it back=20
a ways.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000><FONT face=3DArial><FONT size=3D3>(Well, =
Patti, we're now=20
"lecture for lecture" and it's your turn at bat if you wish a=20
turn.)</FONT></FONT></FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000><FONT face=3DArial><FONT=20
size=3D3></FONT></FONT></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><EM>Sharon Starr (Florence, AZ) Daughter and CG / =
Rae=3D74 now /=20
50 age dx / 45 age onset</EM></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial><FONT face=3DArial></FONT></FONT> </DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial><FONT face=3DArial>P.S. And yes, I have =
found some=20
</FONT>"wife-beating" jokes to be quite humorous, and I have =
been the=20
victim of abuse. However, when I became able to laugh about it, I =
could=20
see the underlying problem clearly for the first time. Laughter =
was the=20
catalyst to my "healing". (Haven't been beaten =
since,=20
either.) :<)</FONT></DIV></BODY></HTML>
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