In a message dated 1998/10/30 16:03:51, you write: << I was able to get Don to a couple of support group meetings, but he said it just depressed him. I continued to go, but rarely got him to go. >> hi nancy this sounds like a stage of denial which we all have to work through at our own pace and in our own way you can lead a horse to water............. janet janet paterson - 51 now / 41 dx / 37 onset - almonte/ontario/canada http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/janet/ [log in to unmask]