going thru this thing with my dad's cancer has wiped both of us out, finding out yesterday that it has spread from his spine and neck to his chest, pelvis, and hips, who knows what else.... he doesn't have a whole lot of time left. my question is how does grief affect a non pd physically, I have my usual shakes and jerks, but my usual abundance of energy is gone, and at times I get so wiped out I can barely move, it's all I can do to get to the bed and lay down. this is not me. is this part of the grieving emotional things that affect a person, I also have a hard time concentrating and focusing, remembering stuff, am I losing it? I have been able to cry and let the feelings out... so I guess that is a good thing. my guestion is is it grief, stress, emotions, depression, all of the above. ? Lisa in paradise