Thanks Bernie for some very wise words! Even adult "kids" have trouble at times accepting parents' illnesses, and how much harder it must be for the younger folks! Bernie wrote: >Hi to all the children of PWP. > >A number of children have written to ask how to deal with their Dads and >their reactions to the concerns of their children. > >As a Clinical and Social Psychologist, and a worker in the health field >specializing in PWP and their families, I will offer some ideas, that maybe >helpful. First, it is very important to keep in mind the many variables >involved in such situations. Probably every one is very different, and >their set of circumstances are equally varied. Age, Social Economic Status, >Occupation, "Pre-morbid" Personality, Family Dynamics, Cultural Dynamics, >and Community Programs, along with Personal Philosophical Belief Systems. SNIPPED Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 80/9+ Oxford, Ohio http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm <[log in to unmask]> * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Ask me about the "CARE " list * * for caregivers of Parkinsonians * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *