A bit of fluff, I thinkhe uses the article that he can still work. In the whole article his wife speaks once. I recall the wonderful (comnparitively) feelings after the surgery. I think he hasn't hurt us but he kind of disasociates himfself from us. If he truly feels it just means "you have to put up with a little more crap" he is in for a big surprise. Find a mountain and claim it