Don, not only are you doing what is right, but you can set the example for the list! Most times you discuss everything that is important: getting along with PD, getting along with family and friends, the PWP being good to the CG and vice versa. In this post you mentioned several things that can help PWP and caregiver, like using timers, etc. You may get confused sometimes, but who doesn't? We know that Don is still at the controls! I can help you with one problem: the sump pumps, just move to Florida, where we have no basements, so we need no sump pumps! Also, no basement means no stairs! What do you think? LOL, [log in to unmask]