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Dear Janet, Normally I would send a personal note off list, but since some feel that everything should be to the group... I have always enjoyed your messages. Fun, laughing, caring for other ...especially the love and care you express for Don & others. I am a little worried though that you might need a little "uplifting" right now. Maybe it's because I've lived with depression my entire life, & sought out medical help some 35+ years ago, but right now I seem to be picking up on something from you that worries me. For me when depression hits I just withdraw, but I know others (my ex-husband for example) just get angry. I guess that is what I'm picking up in your recent messages. Your messages come across so different from posts in the past, it has me a little worried. I guess I should admit that I grew up in a very angry family, was married to a very controlling man for 22+ years. It has taken many years to feel safe enough to even sit down & write something like this now. When I sense anger I want to run. For me that is why I seldom post anything. It's my problem & I'm working on it. I'm on the list for my present husband Ben. He hates computers, so this is one way I can help him. We both have received so much from the group & I know that we will in the future. What I'm trying to say is, if there is something going on in your life & want to talk...drop me a note. OK? Linda cg Ben 69/5 [log in to unmask]