Hi all, I agree witih Marilyn. BUT: All of us have a religious belief in Something, and we all must respect (and expext) that. I have no problem when hearing of people sharing their beliefs. I do however feel that this is not the place for long-winded sermons. The rule must be that references to a religious belief should be cut to a maximum of three short sentences. I know that it makes my heart warm when beliefs similar to my own is expressed - I also know that this might have a domino-type of everyone-onto-the-bandwagon effect, and this we should guard against. The fact is that P'sWP with different religious beliefs will be primed to react - and all of us will need to be tolerant of that. So - share your belief, but just to make a gentle short statement, and not to convert your readers to your own religious fold. On the subject of death and dying, including chronic illnesses, people will always be closer to religion than otherwise(unless they specifically suppress that) and there is no way of stopping it. I would suggest that people sharing similar views and beliefs should get together electronically - it could be very enriching to share experiences etc, but this should be done on another platform (pulpit?) and not on this list. Gerrit Kleynscheldt Tel: 021 947 8918 (International +27 21 947 8918) Fax: 021 947 1521 (International +27 21 947 1521) Please note the following: Because e-mail can be altered electronically, the integrity of this communication cannot be guaranteed. -----Original Message----- From: Shafer, Marilyn [SMTP:[log in to unmask]] Sent: Tuesday, February 02, 1999 4:29 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Re: G_d, religion etc. Seems to me if this is a room in which we can share our experiences, questions, occasionally our sorrows--if we can open up to each other in many ways--why should evidence or mention of one's belief in a higher power be banned from the conversation? Now, I don't want to tune in here to listen to some fanatic use the site to proselytize or preach at me, but I am not offended to know that someone holds a belief in God and is comfortable in saying that he gets comfort from it. Life is short. The best thing we can do is help each other get through it...patience, humor, respect...and some tenderness. /marilyn > ---------- > From: Nita Andres[SMTP:[log in to unmask]] > Reply To: Nita Andres > Sent: Tuesday, February 02, 1999 8:22 AM > To: [log in to unmask] > Subject: G_d, religion etc. > > You see Gaylon, there are so many of us and therefore many religions. > that is why religion as a topic is usually avoided. I know you must > have deep beliefs and want to encourage others, but others have other > beliefs which are just as valid. Don't have your feelings be hurt. > this > is just why. Nita >