Hi listfriends,
I havent read all reactions to Ivan's letter about
the NPF, but.............
As I see it Ivan is expressing EMOTIONS.
Some are contradicting him by responding with
ARGUMENTS.
You must all be single!!! 8<{)))))))}}
Never had a fight about.....about.....about.......
(What are most domestic fights about.............
...............cropped up EMOTIONS perhaps??)
Never said: But.....but......but....but.............??
while you were perfectly reasonable?
And did the arguments work??
I suppose they didnt.
What helps then???:
Listening, love and attention!!!!!!
(Other suggestions you might want to add from
personal experience........................????)
Will that prevent then a next emotional outburst??
NO.
Why not???
That's because emotions are emotions,
unpredictable in their behaviour, because there
is no logic in emotions.
Did all of this sound logical to you????
Were you LISTENING??
Did you pay ATTENTION??
LOVE
Hans.
