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On Wed, 3 Feb 1999 16:10:35 -0500 Bob Anibal <[log in to unmask]> writes: >Here goes the gay bit again. Are you bragging or complaining? Why >can't >you let people accept you as you are without wearing a big banner? >Bob Anibal > ^^^^^^ WARM GREETINGS FROM ^^^^^^^^^^^^ :-) Ivan Suzman 49/39/36 [log in to unmask] :-) Portland, Maine land of lighthouses 40 deg. F :-) ******************************************************************** Bob, I guess you do not see that the List's heterosexual environment flashes in bright neon at the gays and lesbians on this list. And yet, I don't think any of us mind. We vary of course, and I can only represent myself. Bob, I try to tell you about me so that you can gain a little wisdom about us. And I appreciate whatever anyone contributes, as long as it is meant positively. It's a learning experience. So Bob, I am not bragging. I am not complaining. I am just talking to you. It's too bad you can't seem to accept me as I am. I am proud to be gay, and share it joyously, as other Listmembers share their joys, whatever they might be. I was simply sharing role models. My heroes. But, Bob, I do wonder what the unseen "big banner" you are talking about looks like to you? I would welcome an explanation, OFF-LIST. I doubt that I wear THAT banner! Anyway, I am weary, and cannot allow myself to be exposed to any more attacks.or destructive comments from a List that has no STATED policy to affirm the humanity of every individual, and to protect its minorities. Gays and lesbians do not reveal themselves if they are unsafe. I no longer feel safe from negative comments. The Parkinson's List will have to change before I will feel safe enough to return. God Bless each and every one of you! ivan mfowethu suzman 49/39/36