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John, You and I have touched on this a little already but I thought I'd put my 2 cents in. My husband is very devoted to me almost to a fault. My depression and tears affect him terribly. I think there are some things that only the afflicted can deal with. And I think that protecting the ones we love is admirable and sometimes necessary. However, it could be a mistake to carry it to the point of making that person feel left out and helpless. This disease affects not only the afflicted but all those around them. My husband has expressed that he would like to be a part of this devestation just as he has been a part of our shared joy in life. I can't deny him that. I also think partners should be involved at the doctors visits. It helps to clarify things on a first hand basis, keeps everyone involved, and provides moral support. Jennifer