Marling, I wrote John off list share as much as you can stand and they can stand to receive. I went into more detail off list, because I am a private person and can't bare my soul to the world, at least not 1600 people. Love, Nita Marling McReynolds wrote: > John, > You have asked a loaded question. > If I share too much with my son he is scared. Then if I don't share > enough he will not understand what is happening. > I don't know what the answer is, and I think it changes all the time. > However, I have a good counselor to whom I can tell everything and > anything. She is my special release. > Marling