Welcome Gini! This list is quite a source of information- be prepared for a real experience! I'm a newcomer myself but have gained much from the many exchanges of experiences and collective knowledge. To get more specific feedback, can you make an introduction of information concerning your father's age, diagnosis source, meds, condition, feelings, etc.. Since there are l700 people involved in this publc/private conversation I know you will get some really constructive assistance and suggestions from some really caring people. Good luck and looking forward to any questions you may want to ask.... Marie