On Thu, 4 Feb 1999, Marling McReynolds wrote: > John, > You have asked a loaded question. > If I share too much with my son he is scared. Then if I don't share > enough he will not understand what is happening. > I don't know what the answer is, and I think it changes all the time. Yes, I think so too. As somebody told me in a private reply: "there's a thin line between a Hero and Idiot". Either you hurt yourself by holding back, or yor hurt others by loading them too much. I wanted to ask anyway, because I feel this is so important! We can never find a straight answer, but I still wanted to hear your opinions. > However, I have a good counselor to whom I can tell everything and > anything. She is my special release. Actually, I wish everybody somebody like that. It is valuable to me too. I do find it odd at times; sitting there and talking about my innermost fears with a complete stranger, who gets paid to listen to me. Heh... Oh well, maybe I think to much? :) Take care! /John.