I have just recently started to experience the same problem. So far what works for me is to just hold it in. this isn't as stupid as it sounds, Just try standing in one place and concentrate on holding it, it becomes painful but reaches a point where it doesn't get any worse [like swimming underwater] and then subsides enough to make it to the restroom. A lot PWP have this urgency of urination problem. You may have to end up wearing Depends or seeing a urologist. JUST TRY TO KEEP IT IN PERSPECTIVE - IT'S JUST ONE MORE INDIGNITY AMONG MANY. bba