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1998/02/18 acronyms / purpose of our list / cyber-dad
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hi all
...those of us who have been privileged
to have access to the internet for some time
are frequently guilty of using 'insider' language and short-forms
without regard for the newer internet adventurers
i consciously try to avoid using such insider 'lingo'
in consideration of the above-mentioned 'newbies' and
in consideration of the international aspect of this list-family
i am privileged in that
english [my native language - albeit the canadian version]
is becoming or already has become
the internet's primary language
i only have admiration for those who have learned english
as a second [or third, or fourth...] language
so...
SPAM
= that canned manufactured pseudo ham
= 'junk' e-mail spewed to all and sundry
LOL
= laughing out loud
ROTFLOL
= rolling on the floor, laughing out loud
PD
= parkinson's disease
PWD or PWP
= person with parkinson's disease
PARKIE
= another version of person with parkinson's disease
in re the above two terms:
you pays your money and you takes your choice!
...
words / ideas that are written can be easily misunderstood
[especially, it seems, when the tone is casual and teasing]
since there is no body language / facial expression
to assist the receiver in interpretation
so short-forms and 'emoticons' like:
<g> = grin or giggle
:-) = smile
have developed for clarity's sake
the internet and e-mail are a brand new communications phenomenon
so in the larger sense, we are all 'newbies' to this medium...
IMHO = in my humble opinion,
FWIW = for whatever it's worth,
sometimes very short messages can 'backfire'
in the sense that the sender may intend a kindness in being brief
but the receiver may interpret the brevity
as curtness or criticism
some of our cyber-family want short messages
some want long messages
some want jokes
some want purely pd-related info
we are each of us totally unique one-of-a-kind individuals
[how's that for excess redundancy?]
we have to do
what we have to do
to be true to ourselves
and not be overly concerned with others' opinions of us
i believe that the purpose of this list is sharing
[of which our 'list-mom' barb patterson perpetrated the ultimate
by starting this list in november 1993]
if we feel the need to share
news about pd or non-pd
grief or celebration
anger or humour
joy or pain
so be it
...i hope all of us continue writing to all of us
we are in this 'boat' together and for the 'long haul'
each one of us
regardless of our skill or comfort level with the internet
has something to contribute which might benefit others
...i think that 99% of angry reactions
are caused by mis-understandings or mis-interpretations
and the best [maybe only] way to clear out the mess
is to talk it all out
back to our favourite cyber-dad don mckinley
and his expression I.Y.Q.:
which as pronounced in english sounds like:
'eye why kew'
which if said quickly can sound like:
'i wike you'
which can sometimes be interpreted as 'baby-talk' for:
'i like you'
i have always found the expression delightful
as well as more than a tad goofy
which is another reason why
i.y.q. 2!
[mr. don and mr. pd both!]
your cyber-sibling in silliness
[yr cybyr-cyblyng yn syllynyss]
janet
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janet paterson - 52 now /41 dx /37 onset - almonte/ontario/canada
<http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/janet/index.htm>
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