KF Etzold wrote: > I recognised that the kaddish does not mention the departed or death >when I read it. But, as a philosophical question how did this become the >prayer for the dead, and in fact how can one tell that this is intended as >such, since as you mention it, it is in the praise of God. So the connection >to me is less than obvious. My Rabbi wrote: Dear Michel, The recitation of the kaddish, at every service for one year following the death of a loved one, is indeed a praise of God (technically it is called a "doxology") and is said for protection of the loved one's soul as it ascends the heavenly heights to be with God. From a cosmological point-of-view, after death a soul can either go directly to "Paradise" (Garden of Eden), or, if there has been some sinfulness in the person's life, the soul goes to "Gehanna" to experreince a cleansing for a period of up to one year. After a year, the soul then is allowed to go to Paradise to join everyone else. This experience in Gehenna is perilous, and so we say a prayer of praise to God in order to ask God for protection of that soul during its sojourn there. I hope this is helpful to you and to your colleague. Let me know if you need more. --Jonathan Biatch