Janice,
I don't have your address so I can't respond off
list. I have recently helped 2 friends who were terminal, die at home as
they wished. I don't have anything magic to say, but remembering and
sharing good times with them (if they are conscious) will help both of you as
well as the family. also, taking a few minutes to leave the room, breath
deeply and rest, will help your stamina last longer. also, although
you won't feel like it, eat and drink enough to fuel your body. Finally,
it both of you are religious, silent and praying out loud will help, as well as
reading passages from the scriptures
Just some observations which helped
me
bob