Janice,
I don't have your address so I can't respond
off list. I have recently helped 2 friends who were terminal, die at
home as they wished. I don't have anything magic to say, but
remembering and sharing good times with them (if they are conscious) will
help both of you as well as the family. also, taking a few minutes to
leave the room, breath deeply and rest, will help your stamina last
longer. also, although you won't feel like it, eat and drink enough to
fuel your body. Finally, it both of you are religious, silent and
praying out loud will help, as well as reading passages from the
scriptures
Just some observations which helped
me
bob