Thanks for the book suggestion-- I'm adding it to the resource list! _________ >It's been awhile since I posted anything to the list. Lots of changes >causing lots of stress. Many of us are being diagnoses in our late 30s to >early 50s, at a time when a lot of our marriages are going into some new >phases as well. I found an excellent resource book, "Surviving Your >Spouse's Chronic Illness" by Chris McGonicle. It is well written, in >simple terms, by caregivers who have been there. It covers the good, the >bad and the ugly, and does it in a non-judgmental way. If you are a >caregiver who doesn't have a support group, this book might help. >If you are the spouse with the chronic illness, this book might help you >understand some of what is going on, at least it did with me. It also makes >you aware of some of the decisions you might need to think about in the >future. >I cant say I enjoyed reading this book, it made me cry, laugh, nod and >agree, and want to say "no, that isn't right" etc. Its hard for me to read >a book these days, the pages shake too bad. I read this one cover to cover >without stopping. I hope this helps someone else >bob Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 81/70/55 Oxford, Ohio http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm <[log in to unmask]> "Ask me about the CARE list for Caregivers of Parkinsonians ! "