At 14:01 1999/06/16 EDT, you wrote: >If you sound rude, than I sound rude. :) I told her this same thing. My >father will feel "bad" if he doesn't go, I think. And I don't think my mother >would go which would only add to the guilt. He has definitely shown that he >is not excited, as she has told me herself repeatedly that he "isn't happy >about it." But, it doesn't seem to matter. She says she'll send him home >early on a plane (which he hates) if it's that bad. yuck >She wants them to see the world before the PD really starts to become >a problem. And I can understand that. She feels like they're in a "lull" >and she's desperate to get out... but at what price? her world is changing no doubt about it she will have to change too i'll betchha this is more about dad's pd [and impendiinng 'doom'] than any TRIP jmp janet paterson 52 now / 41 dx / 37 onset PO Box 171 Almonte Ontario K0A 1A0 Canada a new voice http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/Village/6263/ [log in to unmask]