Dear Janet---thank you for the lovely poem. When Freud said dreams are a kind of "wish fulfillment", I think he had something there....it was .a lovely gift to us all for Father's Day >------------------------------------------------------- >dream dad >------------------------------------------------------- > >last year >i dreamt about my father >[he died of throat cancer in 1977] >we were standing side by side >watching some major construction and earth-moving work >going on at st. george's harbour here >[in bermuda] >[oh, the layers and layers of significance] >he held his arm tightly about my waist >we shared the thought that >he hadn't been able to express affection physically >he had never hugged me >i teased him "well, it's about time, dad!" >he acknowledged that and held me more snugly >we stood there side by side comfortably >watching the on-going work >more tears on awakening >but tears of joy >this time > >------------------------------------------------------- >janet paterson 1997/09/01 >------------------------------------------------------- > > >janet paterson >52 now / 41 dx / 37 onset >PO Box 171 Almonte Ontario K0A 1A0 Canada >a new voice http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/Village/6263/ >[log in to unmask] Camilla Hewson Flintermann <[log in to unmask]> http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm "...everywhere I go, I find that a poet has been there before me..." ...Sigmund Freud