Dear Hilary: Congratulations! and bless you for all the work and struggles you have endured because of the PD. I've mostly been listening to your plight, but I'd like to share with you the fact that I was taken from my mother by the courts when I was l2 yr. old - will never forget the experience - and learned how my mother suffered for ten years afterwards being branded an "unfit mother" by the system. Those very words helped destroy her inside so badly and though I was back with her after six months, I lived with a tortured person the rest of her life about it. I share this for I hope it will openly say to you to try to find some way to keep from being devastated by such actions within yourself - I know it can happen even if it doesn't show on the outside and with the PD to contend with you need all the truly loving, caring support you can get and I hope you continue to feel you get it from here. May we all celebrate your child's homecoming and look forward to your entire family being re-united. YEA! YEA! Marie in Texas CarePartner to husband 70/l3