At 13:00 1999/06/30 -0700, you wrote: >well i just hate to give in as you all know how bull headed i am so depends >it is cry cry tears. oh years i am getting can for pennies out. even had >calls to bring them in. am going to go out 4th to a party. will let you >know if i don't freak out. VIVIAN and my NERO says it is my bull head to >try to walk and not ask for help. now says DON do not use your wheelchair >keep on trying to walk. ha ha. see i am smart for a PWP. > > I.Y.Q. DON AND VIVIAN > LOVE OF MY LIFE-54 > > BEST MEDS FOR PD IS > BE PROUD AND GIVE IT U R BEST hey cyber-dad i am proud of you for outsmarting that bull! we've [all of us] got to work at getting away from this narrow, confrontational black and white you win i lose concept it isn't based on reality there are tons more shades of grey than there are black or white there are tons more possible solutions to problems than yes or no there are tons more steps on this grand staircase than one up or one down the trick is looking at more than two possibilities takes more work things aren't so simple anymore as homer says 'doh!!!' love sis ps i want to hear about that party irregardless of your 'freaking out' hah!!! janet paterson 52 now / 41 dx / 37 onset PO Box 171 Almonte Ontario K0A 1A0 Canada a new voice http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/Village/6263/ [log in to unmask]