Hi Janet, Of course is the paradox of our time negative and cynical. We (as a civilisation) are making all these mistakes in our haste to make life easier/better/more modern etc. It is sad that we are losing all the good that we have as a trade-off, without realising it. The point I tried to make is that the people not trying to keep up with the Jones' - staying behind and backwards, so to speak - are not being affected by this and are keeping all of that which we have lost. They still know everything about communication etc without having to go to classes/college/symposia/shrinks. Another view could be that modern civilisation have evolved and engineered and advanced itself backwards. This all is also, of course, a very coarse generalisation. The Paradox of our time was not written as a factual study, but as a warning to what we can have happen if we do not take time to stop and smell the roses. Gerrit Kleynscheldt Tel: 021 947 8918 (International +27 21 947 8918) Fax: 021 947 1521 (International +27 21 947 1521) Please note the following: Because e-mail can be altered electronically, the integrity of this communication cannot be guaranteed. -----Original Message----- From: janet paterson [SMTP:[log in to unmask]] Sent: Monday, July 05, 1999 2:27 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Re: Non PD, Paradox of our time / perception again hi all At 10:12 1999/07/05 +0200, gerrit wrote: >Nina, >Absolutely beautiful. >I have sent & E-mailed this to all I could think of. >I have realised long ago that people living the simple (backward) >way of life seems to understand the essence of life much better. They will say that the city dweller smiles with his mouth, but not >with his eyes, etc. They raise their children with proper values >and these children have happiness - in their relationships and life >in general. Somehow they know more about psychology than the majority >of scholars of that area. So these that you sent are wise words indeed! >Regards. Gerrit Kleynscheldt yikes i went back to read it again and found it sadly negative and cynical full of sweeping negative generalisations and that good ole 'black/white' simplistic way of looking at things odd how we perceive the same words in such different ways janet janet paterson 52 now / 41 dx / 37 onset snail-mail: PO Box 171 Almonte Ontario K0A 1A0 Canada website: a new voice <http://www.geocities.com/SoHo/Village/6263/> e-mail: <[log in to unmask]>