Dear Carole--wow! I'm glad you DID post that, and hope you feel better---there have been lots of supportive posts saying how humor helps them. As you are new, you wouldn't realize that this is a rerun of a rerun of a rerun of an earlier discussion! As with anything else, there are always newbies who need to explore where we've been, not having been there themselves. They sometimes leave the list, if it doesn't "fit' at that time--or learn to accept the varied nature of posts and the way it provides "different strokes for different folks". I really don't think there was any special attack on you---sorry if it felt that way---Ken, John, Hilary and I along with a few others could feel that way too, I guess--but it's more the concept folks have of the list, I think, and that obviously varies widely. I think if we are careful re: headings as John outlined, things will calm down---and after awhile we might even get tired (dare I say it?) of Pigs ! :-) Did you see that someone today suggested we should publish in a book? Was that for real? or tongue in cheek? Maybe the Dancer knows! Camilla Flintermann http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm <[log in to unmask]> "Love People---- ----- Use Things"